I Reconsider

I just realized something. The people I can think of that have or have had Nellies are kind of users. I don't mean drug users in this case (although they are often that too) I mean they use people. They feel completely okay about letting someone else do all the stuff they'd rather not do themselves. I feel weak and guilty doing that. I feel like I really ought to be able to do all that stuff for myself. Maybe I'd feel differently though if someone offered to take it on.